This book was inspired by conversations with more than
200 women who told me about their disappointment with men
who seemed to misunderstand their motives for trying online
dating sites. To better understand why so many men seemed
to be missing the point, as well as to find a soul mate of my
own, I decided to try online dating myself. What I learned –
about me, about women, and about online dating – went far
beyond anything I could ever have anticipated. To say it was
an experience filled with twists, turns and surprises would be
an understatement.